Devalued and Discarded.

I am the rejected parent.

I am losing my children

and I don’t know how to stop it.

WHAT IS PARENTAL ALIENATION?

Parental alienation takes place when a child aligns himself or herself to one parent and rejects a loving relationship with the other parent.  The rejection does not have any justification.  It is a campaign of denigration against a parent with no valid reasoning. According to Wikipedia Parent Alienation is, “The process, and result, of the psychological manipulation of a child into showing unwarranted fear, disrespect or hostility towards a parent and/or other family members.  It is a distinctive and widespread form of psychological abuse and family violence-towards both the child and the rejected parent -that occurs almost exclusively in association with family separation and divorce.  Most commonly, the primary cause is a parent wishing to exclude another parent from the life of their child, but other family members or friends, as well as professionals involved with the family (including psychologists, lawyers, and judges), may contribute significantly to the process.  It often leads to the long-term, or even permanent, the estrangement of a child from one parent and other family members and, as a particularly adverse childhood experience, results in significantly increased risks of both mental and physical illness for children.”
What is Parent Alienation?

What is Parent Alienation?

Parental alienation takes place when a child aligns himself or herself to one parent and rejects a loving relationship with the other parent.  The rejection does not have any justification.  It is a campaign of denigration against a parent with no valid reasoning.  ...

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Examples of Parent Alienation

Examples of Parent Alienation

Frequent, Manipulative Communication. There were recordings on my youngest son’s phone.  Recordings of our conversations.  I was tipped off by a message from James (dad) to him saying, “Make sure you tape record all your conversations with her.”   I also found James...

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ABOUT ME

I am the mother of 3 boys.  I wear that title proudly.  In an unforeseen turn of events, I have been battling to stay in their lives now for years.  

A lot of literature out there tells us how to deal with divorce.  45% of the adult population is divorced.  Unfortunately, a growing number of divorcing families also go through a terrible situation that is much less known or understood. It’s called Parental Alienation.  This is my journey now.  

Many of the experts, attorneys, psychologists and police officers will advise you, “Sit back and wait.”  I have tried every avenue to get back into my children’s lives, only to meet roadblocks at every turn.  The one thing I can’t do is sit back and wait.  It is time for me to tell my story and help others that are dealing with this nightmare.